It’s still amazes me what time can do to not only change your heart, but change you completely. Sit back and think around this time last year you had sworn to everyone you knew you’d never get over the person that well now you think “shit, I’m over them.” When you use to sit and compare loves and use to tell yourself “I’m never going to find another person like them.” Then time passes by and brings along someone that changes all that for you. You stop comparing, you stop dwelling on your past. For once, you say yes. Yes to giving this a chance. Yes to allowing them to get to know you. Yes to letting them in even when you’re completely fine with having no one understand. You change your ways, and learn things from this new “love” you’ve allowed into your life. Not every relationship is the same, which is why I always stated to never look for the same thing, you’ll never find it the way you once had it. This new “love” has different flaws, you accept them. Also have different pet peeves, issues, etc and you’re still fine with it. You begin to accept them for all they are and understand there are somethings that aren’t perfect but you’re willing to stand beside them and help them grow IF they’re willing too. You then start to see a different you. One that has never seen some sides of yourself and you begin to wonder where is this side of you coming from. Sit back, pay close attention. This new you has been exposed through this new relationship. This isn’t a bad post, nor a hurtful one. This is post for a reminder to those who sit and deal with the ways of your so called “love” and have begun to run thin of ideas on how to help. That sometimes, you can’t always say yes. I said yes yesterday, but I don’t know if I can say yes today. When you stand by someone, even when they don’t want to look at you it means you’re saying yes. I’ve said yes over and over again and done what I could to make it better to continue on. Sometimes, I’d be nice if it was returned. Don’t you agree? Always remember there will be days where you have to say no. No to fighting and no to trying to fix it. Sometimes you have to remind them, it takes two.